Saturday, January 2, 2010
अश्वत्थाम्याची गोष्ट
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Winter in Canada
This time, I came in latter part of November. Snow was waiting for my arrival. It let me settled down nicely drawing me into false belief that this time it’s not going to be harsh winter. Some showers had kept atmosphere warm. “Warm” means just below 0 Degree Celsius. We had flurry on Tuesday and in the evening, temperature was – 6. When I woke up Wednesday morning, White color dominated all the space around. It was wonderful experience to walk into snow. Fresh snow was as soft as anything you can imagine. It is really like they show in movies. Our client manager has promised me that team will build a snow man for me as it’s my first experience of snow :-) but also with the threat of snow balls being hurled at me :-( .
Inside house and in office we do not feel much difference as temperature is maintained quite well. But moment of truth arrives when we open the door in the morning or we get out of office in the evening :-)
The scene from our office when there is snow is just as amazing as traveling in train in Khandala ghat and seeing the green hills in the rain. But it’s totally different when you are out there and facing wind chill at -20. Temperature meter shows -13 but wind makes you feel like its -20. I survive those 10-15 minutes everyday. Worst part is that there are people always ready to remind you that it is just start. Wait for -30, -40. Even thinking about that is giving me chilling experience. But I am ready for it with the help of all the winter stuff - gloves, cap, Jacket, sweater, woolen socks and what not. I am just saying…
Come on Canada; bring it on -40 …
"Two states" and Me
I turned first page and read the “dedicated to”. It is "To my In-laws" :-). It was the first smile that book brought on my face. It just set the mood for the reading. There after, I knew somehow that I am going to love this book. It was almost like, I decided that I am going to enjoy each and every moment of this performance by Chetan Bhagat. I am going to smile, enjoy and applaud each and every good moment in the book. I wasn't disappointed.
To tell a story in one line -
Boy and girl meet each other; fall in love, convinces their parents and get's married.
It moves through IIM-A, Chennai and Delhi. As usual, the boy is intelligent, good looking. Girl is beautiful, talented. Chetan Bhagat moves with his usual mix of witty lines, funny incidents and romance. But the real fun starts when their parents meet each other and at Convocation they find out the path ahead is not going to be easy. The reason - well .. Boy is from Punjab and girl is from Chennai. One from state in North; other from state in South, representing two different cultures in India. After much consideration and against wish of his mother, Boy gives preference as Delhi and Chennai both. Company asks him to join office at Chennai. There he finds the task of convincing girl’s parents might be tougher than what he thought. Then he tries hard to convert the negative approach into positive and finally succeeds. Task for Girl who does not know to make Roti is much more difficult but the situation in one of relative’s marriage gives her one chance and she scores. So now everything is set. Girl and Boy love each other. Boy’s parents like girl. Girl’s parents like boy. Now next step is both side of parents should like each other. Here comes the major problem between parents and their relation almost comes to end. Here comes Boy’s father, who is shown in negative image till that point suddenly turns the plot and makes way for happy ending.
I don’t want to give details and spoil your fun in reading and enjoying. Writer narrates in such a way that it creates series of scenes in front of us. There are many funny scenes in the book. My most favorite one is when boy runs from marriage hall and his father in law has to bring him back. There are many places where writer points out drastic difference between thinking of people from these two states. As it is based on Chetan Bhagat’s own marriage, I could not stop myself from thinking about different scenes trying to differentiate between fiction and real life scenes. What part of this story would be fiction and what not?. Overall I enjoyed the book a lot and I congratulate Chetan Bhagat for again proving that he is magician of new generation when it comes to art of light hearted story telling.
It is not review of book. It’s my experience with the book. Every book gives us different experience at different times and in different situations. I hope, you would also like this book.
Friday, May 29, 2009
True Incident - happened on Pune station
True incident – It is quite a long story. I acted quite seriously in the incident. So I am taking some liberty now to look at incident in slightly light mood.
It was 10.30 PM and I was waiting for Pandharpur-Mumbai passenger at Pune station to go to Kalyan. Couple of my friends did not turned up so I was alone waiting for train. (You can say, they ditched meJ) Keeping in mind, “Books are best friends”, I took out the book “Imagining India” and started reading. But soon I got distracted as someone asked me, to look after their bags while they brought some more bags. As I moved my eyes around, the station really was a lively place as always. I thought rather than imagining India, let’s take a look at real India. There were so many people there, probably everyone there with his own exciting story of life.
Then suddenly my eyes caught one boy around 20 years just not looking comfortable in the environment. He was coming in my direction, when there was eye contact between us. I smiled at him.(For Pune BB : Yes. I do smile at strangers, but only at children and people with same gender to avoid consequences J).There was something in his eyes, a kind of recognition. He came and sat beside me. He asked, is their any train for Bombay(Mumbai) ? Rest of all conversation happened in Hindi but I would narrate it in Hinglish. I answered yes, there is, in ½ hour. Where you want to go ? “I don’t know” He answered as if in given-up tone.
Me : “Aise kyon kah rahe ho bhai ?”
He: No. Just like that. Forget it. (But seeing his face, anyone would have noticed that he wanted to tell something. ) So I just put my hands over his shoulders and said “Kya hua yar, aise kyon kah rahe ho? Kisi se zagada hua kya? “
Then through our questions and answers, he told me that his native is some village in MP and he came to Pune around 8 months back. He actually ran from his home without telling them and to come to his brother). He was staying with his brother. He was working with “Central” mall as a salesman for some brand of cloths. He had some fight at his workplace and that’s why he was upset. He told me, he was 8th pass but got the job saying that he has completed his XII. He said, he knows why no one likes him much, because he was a habitual liar. He would lie at anytime without any purpose as well.
I became alert on hearing this just thinking may be this can be also part of his lie. But sincerity on his face told me something different. He had tears in his eyes while talking about his parents. Luckily he was not having any bad habit. I was quite surprised that he trusted me so much, but I understood, it wasn’t me as a person but he needed to talk to someone.
I asked him whether he has told his brother that he is leaving for Mumbai. He said “No” and he did not want to inform anyone. He would return only when he will be able to show his face to his parents and they will feel proud of him. (There were many things which he had done at home but which I could not write).I offered him to stay at my home till he finds some new place but he refused. I knew some stories of success in Mumbai but lot more about failure and seeing his emotional nature, I was really scared for him that there was great chance of ruining his life. I keep asking him to tell at least to someone that he was going to Mumbai. I suggested him that he can say to him that he is already in train, so his friend would not be able to catch him. He agreed to call one of brother’s friends and I generously gave my mobile to call. He called him and told him that he was going to Mumbai. Friend tried to ask questions like why and when he will be back etc. But he cut the phone and handed me back. Now, I had one number by which I could stop him from going but there were two problems
1. Train would have arrived in 10 minutes and in that time his friend would not be able to reach station.
2. He was with me so I could not dial in front of him.
Just then, there was announcement that the train will be 1 hour late. So I found answer to my first question. Then I casually asked him whether he has got ticket? He said “No” but on my insistence surprisingly he went to get ticket. After all, he was a guy who was running from everything. What he had to loose? Nothing. I told him , what he was doing in his personal life is his choice but there is no way he should start it by cheating Railways in his new life. I just waited till he climbed the stairs and was on the bridge going to get ticket. Just when, I was calling that number, I received a call from his brother. I told him that we are still at Pune station and there is 1 hour for train. If he could come before that, we would be able to stop his brother.
He said, he will be coming in 20-25 minutes. I told him location and he cut the phone.
Now, I had to hope that he comes by after taking ticket. He came and we talked with each other.
After 10-15 minutes, I received call on my mobile from his brother. I pretended that it’s call from my mother and just went 10-15 feet away from him. As I was telling his brother where exactly we were, he saw his brother and friend and started running. I told his brother, he is running and pointed to direction. All three of us ran after him but thinking about my bags, I left the chase and came back. I was just waiting for a phone call and his brother called and thanked me and told that they are all together now. I begged to tell him that I have not cheated. I have not broken his trust. It was for his good. His brother said that he will be all right. Don’t worry. I was quite relived sitting there, thanking my friends who ditched me. I have talked to his brother sometimes after that incident. I know, I may have done good thing for his life but till date I have not dare to meet him again and look into his eyes. He had told me some things which he may not have shared with anyone. It was kind of a candid confession, he had made to me about his good/bad things. I could just hope that his life is in better shape and he succeeds in standing tall and proud in front of his parents.
Friday, September 26, 2008
Team Lunch
N (Gentleman, 30 years) - I am engaged and I think, I need to be in the relationship for at least 10 years to know whether I would continue or not.. J
A (Gentleman around 30 years) - I would have been in Australia right now but there was fight between by mother and Aunty (Her sister). Aunt went to Australia so my mother moved here in Canada..
- Baseball is not the game.. Bull-fight, football are games..
- About pig hunting in New Zealand - That’s the manly thing to do.. You wrestle with pig, hunt him down , take it on your back and come back home saying to kids.. Hey.. Look what I have brought for dinner
N - Only manly thing to do I know is to get new hair cut
K (Lady around 40) - My daughter worked as bartender in her summer vacations and it’s nice. She is getting to know world around..
P (Lady around 35) - I married very young around 25. Now I think, I should have wait for another 4-5 years..
About another lady - who did not work after getting married - You know she went to university ( means she studied till degree college) and still after marriage she is not doing anything.. She should not be wasting her knowledge..
Y (Lady around 26) - Regarding some discussion whether to do order some thing or not.. One proposed to have Vote -
Why do we need to vote.. Just order it .. That’s it.. Why do we need to discuss.. ( Do I need to tell that she is from China )
N - On Americans settling in Canada - These Americans will come here . They feel superior to us. They expect everyone to respect them because they are Americans.
There were many other experiences shared as well. I just thought to have some of these about subjects which we , people in India feel close to.
Thursday, September 11, 2008
First few days in Canada
Dupari ek Udupi hotel aahe.. tithe “Puri-Bhaji” (Rs. 200) . ratri vyavasthit jewan.. mhanaje poli-bhaji , Dal,Bhat sagal asat.. aani ya sagalyat swadisht pana,chaw vagaire ch bolayach mhatal tar .. Lonere – BATU hostel la 2 warsh khalya mule .. chawi ch threshold khoop jast aahe.. tyamule kahihi compare kel tari changalach watat.. sagalyat changal mhanaje Weekend la sunil chya hatacha dupari waran-bhat.. waranala mast toop-jiryachi phodani deun tayar karato..
Aani ajun ek ithe bhar Soory prakashat sandhyakali 7.30 wajta dinner hotoy sadhya… winter madhe 4-4.30 wajta ch soory nighun jato ithalya thandila kantalun ..
Ithale lok thodese ulate aahet.. Driving ulatya bajuni kartat.. gharat sagale switches warati kelyawar suru hotat aani khali kelaywar band.. aani mumbait lya manasa sathi sagalyat avaghad gosht mhanaje gharat pankha nawacha prakar nahi.. aatta suddha dar ughad thewun .. baherun wara yeyachi wat baghat basaloy.. AC aahe.. pan to generally ithe ghar garam thewanyasathi waparala jato.. thand thewanyachya badali.. aani me gujarati family barobar rahatoy mhatalyawar unhalyat suddha poorn gharatala ac chalu ka karat nahi as prashn tumachya manat nakkich yenar nahi ..
Are ho aani me ithe office chya kamani aaloy nahi ka wisaraloch hoto.. tar office ghara pasun sadharan 2.5 – 3 km aahe.. gharatun building disate office chi.. sakali sadharan 8.05 la nighato.. bus ekada change karun 8.30 la pochato.. monthly pass gheun thewalay.. ithe conductor ha prakar nahi bus madhe.. driver chya samorachya machine madhe paise takun kinwa driver la pass dakhawun aat shirayach.. Aapalya bus madhala sagalyat motha vadacha Vishay mhanaje suttee paise.. ithe compulsory pravas karanaryalach suttee paise dyawe lagtat.. driver konatyahi prakare paishana hat pan lawat nahi.. tyamule ithale driver ekdam sukhi asatat tase.... hajar manas, bikes yana talat tyana chalwawi lagat nahi Bus. Normal traffic che rule palat, lane chi shist palat bus chalawali ki zal.. Office madhun sadharan 5 chya sumaras nighato.. Ithe far jast wel thambun kam karanyachi paddhat nahi..
i will post next updates soon..
Monday, August 18, 2008
India to Canada pravas
12.30 wajta confirm zali ki ratri nighayach aahe..aani dhawpal suru zali…tickets..
Sagali documents.. sagalya formalities houn.. akheris 6 wajta Forex hatat padal…
Mag ghari jaun bags final pack karayachya aani nighayach.. 2 wajta chi flight.. Global Help Desk ni sangital hot ki 3 tas aadhi pochalel bar .. that means.. 11 wajta…
6 wajta infosys hinjewadi hun nighayach- nantar hinjewadi chya traffic madhun paud road la pochayach.. parat nighayach aani mag express way la lagun airport la pochayach…
11 wajayachya aat pochan ashakyach hot… pan sagalya hindi films madhale airport warache scene .. mazya sathi inspiration hote.. shewatachya kshani suddha local train pakadato tas viman pakadu shaken as watat hot.. ghari punyat rujuta tai aani amol aadhich mazyasathi thamble hote.. tyamule bag bharanyach tension navat.. me te expert la outsource kelel hot..tyamule 20 minutat final packing karun gharatun baher padalo..
7.30 la nighalo.. airport kade jayla.. aai-baba kalyan hun direct airport war yenar hote.. maz punyatal saman tikade deyach hot.. tyana 1-2 goshti tithun aanayla sangitalelya hotya.. sagali phonaphoni chalu hoti.. baryach janana tenvach sangital ki me nighatoy.. tyamule mumbai la poche paryant phone-sms chalu hote.. airport pasun 5 KM war 11 wajta pochalo.. aani airport la 12 wajta.. tithe mumbai cha bharpur paus.. aani masali bajar bara as mhanaw.. evadha gondhal.. saman bharale.. aai-babana dil.. tithe samorcha mayuresh barobar aala hota mhanun bar nahi tar aai-baba tithech harawale asate.. asala gadbad gondhal hota.. sagal gheun.. aat entry marali.. baherachya sarakhach gadbad-gondhal asel asha apeksheni aat gelo… pan aat sagal shant hot..
Sagal agadi aaramat zal..saman faras jast navatach.. bakiche jasa ithun khanya-pinyachya babatit aakhkha bharat uchalun tikade gheun jatat tas me kahich ghetalel navat..security check vagaire houn shant pane basalo aani ratri 1 wajta sagalya janana sms takala.. jatoy mhanun.. aani sagal normal hot.. pochalo vimanat.. seat milali hoti madhali.. eka bajula jyachya cheharyawarachi mashi halanyasathi mashila suddha kantala yeil asa ek jan hota.. aani dusaryala bajula.. warachach visheshan lagu padel ashi 55-60 warshachi bai hoti.. (Mala mahit nahi.. tyana suddha mazya kade baghun tasach watal hot ka..?)
agadi “Hum-Tum” sarakhi rani mukharjee nahi pan jara tari devani daya keli asati tar jara bar watal asat… aso tar samor tv hota.. shejarach manus to tv chalu karel aani mag tya pramane aapan karu mhanun 15-20 minute wat baghitali..(Cut-Copy-Paste after all I am Software Engineer).. pan tya pathyacha zopanya shiway dusara kahich plan disala nahi.. (Google pan available navat.. L) .. shewati chalu kela.. 1-2 da restart houn shewati vyavasthit suru zala.. nashibani sagala remote vagaire vyavasthit hatat aala.. zopet gani aikali.. picture surf kele.. aani kadhi zopalo kalalach nahi.. Brussels la pochayachya 1 tas aadhi uthalo.. aani jara antharun vagaire awaral.. map war kiti jawal aaloy te baghital.. nantar mala Pranjal ni ek mahatwachi kamgiri spawali hoti te mhanaje vimanatil toilets kashi asatat te baghanyachi.. pan me uthe paryant.. landing cha signal chalu zala hota.. aani te kam ajun lambani war gel.. landing zal.. aani nantar pahilyanda mazya padsparshani Belguim dhany zala..
mala pahilya pasun pardesha tali manas baghyachi hoti.. aapalya peksha kahi wegali asatat ka te baghaych hot.. pan sagali tashich watali.. ek hatt karanari lahan mulagi.. tichi kalagi ghenare aai-baba .. oh Sorry.. Mammy-Daddy , ek couple - .. aapan airport war aahe yachi mulala athawan karun denari mulagi.. , hanat business magazine ghalun palikadachya jagachi kahich parwa nahi asa basalela koni tari motha manager ..
pan wegala watala to tithala staff.. customer care.. bahutek tyana shikwaw lagat nahi.. ekdam naturally line madhe ghusanarya manasala line madhe yeyla sangital jat hot.. Shist nawacha prakar thoda jast hota.. nantar flight madhun konatahi vighn n yeta.. maza prawas par padala.. ya welela pahilya 2 tasatach pranjal la ji information hawi hoti ti jama keli.. canadala land zalo.. immigration officer, work permit sagal vyavasthit par padal.. sagale jan evadh adabini kas kay bolu shaktat ha maza prashn mala ajun aahe..
Tar asa ekandarit pravas zala aani me canadala pochalo…pudhe kay hotay te kalawat rahinach…